I’m Ersilia

An enthusiastic entrepreneur & ideas person, dedicated to guiding you to be confidently who you want to be & do what makes your heart sing


Australian born and UK raised with that Italian father to keep me understanding what La Dolce Vita is all about, I’m proud to have created a a business that I love and that supports people to feel good as a way towards success.

I help people like you to feel comfortable with the uncomfortable to make that change that moves you forward in life, to live not just from the head but from the heart and dive a little deeper into themselves to find life satisfaction.

I believe that the missing link to success is more of you

the emotions, the heart & the gut!!

As long as I can remember, I’ve been a visionary, able to see the big picture and an insatiably curious individual that loves exploring. Not just the world but the human mind and human spirit. For the past 10 years I have been on a journey to discover what life feels like from the inside out.

As a sensitive creative soul I feel deeply and always felt different not fitting into societies “norms” and I wanted to know why!! I wanted to know the difference between joy vs struggle and understand my emotions, why we do what we do, what is true success. For a long time I perceived sensitivity as a set back and hid it, but finally realised it was a strength and the amazing gifts that come with it. As a creator through my research and through my passion of psychology and self awareness, I gained a multitude of life experiences both professional and personal and with an abundance of travel and spiritual knowledge, I put everything I know together and developed a bunch of tools along the way to help you stay confident, assertive and empowered through those ups and downs, changes and challenges, collapses of life.

How did it all start?

I grew up travelling. After not knowing what to do leaving college I followed in my dad’s footsteps, became a tour guide and went into travel. It was exciting. Standing in front of 50 people, I quickly learned how to be bold, brave and confident, but I didn’t know how to be my true vulnerable sensitive self. Although I had heaps of fun and made great money, I began to feel lonely and unfulfilled.

So I went off on my own expedition in search of exploration, and experimentation! I spent years searching outside myself for the answers of what I was seeking, very often dissatisfied with life because I felt inadequate, comparing myself.. I went back to my native Australia to find myself. But on the way I got lost – waylayed in NZ by a man, I gave up my dreams and passions to follow those of my partner, doing a multitude of odd jobs, but it taught me many skills.

I used to be a tour guide guiding people to see the beauty of the world. I now take you on different journey,

to the heart to find the beauty within and create the outer world to match

How do you hear your heart?

by being present and stopping all the noise, mental and external.

After many years following my partners dreams, back in the UK I didn’t know who I was anymore or what I wanted. I felt so low I wasn’t sure I wanted to go on living but I did. Bolstered by some force deep within, I lifted myself into a space where I began to feel sexy, sassy, assertive, and full of life again — something I hadn’t felt in a long time. When you commit to life, life commits and guides you back!!

I moved to France and finally began following my heart, my childhood dreams by opening a little cafe and juice bar by the beach.

However after many failed relationship, trying to manage a juice bar business on my own, with the wrong ideas of success, trying to do it like everyone else and getting burnt out and exhausted, keeping up the image of the confident person everyone thought I was that didn’t need help and could do it alone, I broke down.

My road back up came when I got to the bottom emotionally, mentally and financially and I decided to look within and changed direction. I found my joy, my creativity the truth of who I was, the inner spirit to guide me. My joy led me back up like a compass in the right direction. I realized I needed to redefine my model of success and understood that being sensitive and intuitive was a skill not a failure and now use it in my everyday life and work.

The truth is everything you need is inside you

its just waiting to be discovered to help you thrive

including your unique gifts and talents, your joyful spirit and most importantly, your hearts desires. So often we look outside ourselves for the answers and keep going with those rational, logical ideas instead of understanding that we are not just logical and rational, but emotional and heartfelt. Aren’t we all just seeking contentment and happiness, and that’s an inside job, its about learning to hear yourself and your desires that allow you to enjoy and create change, then use the head and rationality to put those ideas into place. Changing the direction in which we do it!! to feel satisfied and on purpose, motivated with the joy of life. Today I have put everything I know together in a toolbox to share those tools with you to help you navigate those ups and downs, and boost and motivate you to thrive through life. Get rid of the “shoulds” the crap as I call it that covers up the good stuff the “S.H.I.T” spirit, heart, intuition and truth of who you are to find more life satisfaction, pleasure and contentment and make life an experience to enjoy….

Are you ready for the good S.H.I.T?

Goals, dreams, desires

Dreams don’t work unless you do

Let me guide you to innovate the way you think, feel and

act to create new possibilities in your life

You will undoubtedly have dreams. Whether you dream of having the perfect lifestyle, relationships, travelling more or creating the perfect business from your passions, how you feel will effect what you do. Instead of getting trapped in the busyness of life, learn tools to become present to hear yourself and your desires and create a plan to feel comfortable through the challenges to get there.


At every moment you can tell if the vibration that you are sending is either a positive one or a negative one by identifying the feeling you are experiencing. The first step to achieving your desires is to be present

and now its your turn

I’m here to guide you and serve you to find new possibilities to develop and commit to what you want to start feeling better everyday…Whether you’re starting or growing your business, want better more fulfilling relationships or looking to make a big change in your personal life, I’m here to help and support to tap into your inner wisdom, your creative potential and find what feels right to you and not what everyone tells you it ‘should’ be like. Let’s take the time to redefine your model of success and make transformation longer lasting.

Are you ready to go on the most amazing journey of your life?